{"id":980,"date":"2021-01-23T16:49:39","date_gmt":"2021-01-23T16:49:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fenixcounselling.com\/?p=980"},"modified":"2021-02-04T19:38:28","modified_gmt":"2021-02-04T19:38:28","slug":"energy-vampires","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fenixcounselling.com\/srb\/energy-vampires\/","title":{"rendered":"Energetski vampiri"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"980\" class=\"elementor elementor-980\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-182cdea elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"182cdea\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-741e5384\" data-id=\"741e5384\" 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class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3e334c1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"3e334c1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-cf19477 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"cf19477\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-narrow\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-c722c5e\" data-id=\"c722c5e\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a954b92 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"a954b92\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong>\u0160ta su energetski vampiri?<\/strong><\/p><p>Dan je lepo po\u010deo i u dobrom ste raspolo\u017eenju. Onda se ova osoba pojavljuje i posle razgovora sa njom va\u0161e raspolo\u017eenje naglo pada, i ose\u0107ate da vam je potrebno da odremate ili pojedete ne\u0161to slatko. Istina, svakome treba da izbaci ne\u0161to iz sebe s vremena na vreme, me\u0111utim ako je ovo \u010desti ili jedini scenario kada ta osoba u\u0111e u konverzaciju sa vama, onda ste nai\u0161li na energetskog vampira.<\/p><p>Dakle, energetski vampiri su osobe koje se pona\u0161aju ili komuniciraju tako da se ostali oko njih ose\u0107aju zamoreno ili pod stresom, i to rade na svakodnevnoj bazi. Oni se hrane tu\u0111om emocionalnom energijom, i zato imaju tendenciju da tra\u017ee osobe koje su posebno dobre prirode i empati\u010dne, spremne da saslu\u0161aju svakoga ko ima problem.<\/p><p><strong>Kako to izvode?<\/strong><\/p><p>Bilo da to rade svesno ili nesvesno, energetski vampiri koriste odre\u0111ene manipulativne strategije koje dr\u017ee \u017ertvu pri ruci. U zavisnosti od spremnosti \u017ertve i prirode odnosa sa njom, ove strategije se javljaju u razli\u010ditim oblicima i progrediraju.<\/p><ul><li><strong><em>Idu na dobrotu<\/em><\/strong><\/li><\/ul><p>U najve\u0107em broju slu\u010dajeva, oni igraju na kartu tu\u0111e dobrote i nemogu\u0107nosti da ka\u017eu \"ne\". Ovo je najjednostavniji na\u010din da dobiju pa\u017enju koja im je potrebna, i sasvim dovoljan, osim ako \u017ertva ne po\u010dne da se koprca.<\/p><ul><li><strong><em>Krivica <\/em><\/strong><\/li><\/ul><p>Kada ljudi po\u010dnu da shvataju \u0161ta im se de\u0161ava i krenu da smi\u0161ljaju izgovore da se izvuku, energetski vampir mo\u017ee oti\u0107i korak dalje i po\u010deti sa izazivanjem krivice. Navode \u017ertvu da se ose\u0107a krivom jer ne \u017eele da slu\u0161aju o njihovim problemima i da im posvete vreme i pa\u017enju. Ovo je dobra strategija, budu\u0107i da su \u017ertve mahom dobrodu\u0161ne i osetljive osobe, koji se te\u0161ko nose sa mogu\u0107no\u0161\u0107u da su nekoga povredili.<\/p><ul><li><strong><em>Maltretiranje <\/em><\/strong><\/li><\/ul><p>Kako vreme prolazi i \u017ertva postaje imuna na prethodne strategije, nastupi vampira postaju agresivniji. Maltretiraju \u017ertvu tako \u0161to je ubede da mora da im se na\u0111e kad im je potrebno. Energetski vampir mo\u017ee i da stvori ose\u0107aj kao da im \u017ertva ne\u0161to duguje ili da je jedina osoba koja im mo\u017ee pomo\u0107i.<\/p><ul><li><strong><em>Zastra\u0161ivanje <\/em><\/strong><\/li><\/ul><p>Slede\u0107i, jo\u0161 agresivniji korak, je otvoreno zastra\u0161ivanje, gde mogu da po\u010dnu da prete da \u0107e uraditi ne\u0161to drasti\u010dno ako se \u017ertva ne povinuje njihovim emocionalnim zahtevima.<\/p><p>Prve dve strategije vampiri mogu da koriste na svima, poznanicima, porodici ili prijateljima. Maltretiranje i zastra\u0161ivanje zahtevaju blisku povezanost, ina\u010de su u stanju da izazovu negativnu reakciju toliko jaku da \u017ertva uspe da se potpuno oslobodi uticaja.<\/p><p><strong>Kako se \u017ertva mo\u017ee za\u0161tititi?<\/strong><\/p><p>Prvi korak je da prihvate da je u redu da ka\u017eu \"ne\" drugima, i da nisu u obavezi da pru\u017eaju stalnu i neodlo\u017enu podr\u0161ku u vezi tu\u0111ih problema. Postavljanje emocionalnih granica je korisna ve\u0161tina koju treba usvojiti ne samo radi izla\u017eenja na kraj sa emocionalnim vampirima, ve\u0107 i ljudima uop\u0161te.<\/p><p>Ako takti\u010dno ali odlu\u010dno \"ne\" i dalje ne dolazi u obzir, druga opcija je jednostavno nala\u017eenje efektivnih izgovora. Jedna dobra vrsta izgovora kada imate posla sa energetskim vampirom je \"slomljeno krilo\". Ovaj tip izgovora podrazumeva da se \u017ertva predstavi kao lo\u0161a meta time \u0161to \u0107e re\u0107i kako se i sama ose\u0107a lo\u0161e ili umorno. Pretpostavka ovde je da \u0107e vampir osetiti da ne\u0107e dobiti punu pa\u017enju i podr\u0161ku i oti\u0107i u potragu za \u017eivahnijom \u017ertvom.<\/p><p>Ako ni\u0161ta ne upali, i nema na\u010dina da ih spre\u010dite da koriste svoje strategije na vama, poslednja linija odbrane je jednostavno da se otka\u010dite u potpunosti od takve osobe. Za\u0161tita od energetskih vampira je va\u017ena, posebno ako su neko sa kim imate kontakt na dnevnoj bazi ili neko blizak. Stalno izlaganje ovakvom pona\u0161anju mo\u017ee uzrokovati hroni\u010dan stres, anksioznost, \u010dak i depresiju. Tako da, osim nastojanja da budete dobronamerna osoba koja je spremna da pomogne svima, ne zaboravite da budete dobri i prema sebi.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-1659fac elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"1659fac\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-14d826d\" data-id=\"14d826d\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What is an energy vampire? 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